Name the professional athletes you respect the most and why.
I respect Jackie Robinson for breaking the color barrier in professional baseball. His drive and courage had to be tremendous to brave the difficulties he faced. He changed things for all of us who are different in any way. He was not just a baseball player, he opened doors for all who face challenges. Thank you, Mr. Robinson
Crocheting relaxes me. I always have a project or two in a basket next to my chair. My mind totally clears as I work along. I have a crocheted basket full of afghans for chilly guests. I give away many of my creations. Someone always wants a sweater, bag, afghan or pair of socks. Right now, I am working on a bag.
I really love the hummingbird colors in this oversized shopping bag. It would fit well under a plane seat.
This ruby afghan is heavenly soft.
This is my current project. I just have to complete straps. I will finish it today.
My little dog likes to cuddle while I crochet. He is particularly partial to natural yarns, often trying to snitch a ball for himself. Natural yarns must retain an enticing scent.
If you had to give up one word that you use regularly, what would it be?
Actually, the word I should give up is, actually. I have actually developed of actually overuse it. Most of the time, I actually use it for emphasis that is actually unnecessary. Perhaps this exercise will make me sensitive to its overuse. Actually, I already feel silly.
Share a story about the furthest you’ve ever traveled from home.
I am not a world traveler, though I’d love to be. Banff, Canada is the farthest I’ve been from home. we spent a week there seeing the sights. It was exceedingly beautiful. I’d love to live there, in summer, though I’m sure I’d be overwhelmed by the challenges of winter. I don’t believe I’d ever get saturated with the mountains, glaciers, wildlife, or pristine waters. It’s beauty is always in the back of my mind.
Interview someone — a friend, another blogger, your mother, the mailman — and write a post based on their responses.
I interviewed my mother, the oldest person I know.
What is it like to be 96?
It’s just like being 18 or 24. I am always surprised to see I am old when I pass a mirror. I feel the same I always did.
Are you in pain?
Not a bit. I have arthritis. See these bumps on my fingers and toes. I used to have a lot of pain but I’ve been using a simple remedy for years. I don’t remember where I heard it, now. I mix one teaspoon of cinnamon and 2 tablespoons of honey in a cup of sugar-free hot cocoa first thing every morning. That controls my pain. I tell people all the time but very few people try it. It works for me. I am 96 with arthritis and no pain.
You’ve been widowed more than forty years. Are you lonesome?
No. After that long, I think I’d have to work hard to be sad. He’s been out of my life so long, I’ve been widowed longer than I was married. I still remember the good times and bad but it’s not painful.
What changes have you seen in your life?
I was born at a time when nobody in my family had a car. We walked or road in a wagon. I lived in the country, so we had no electricity, gas, running water, or indoor bathroom. It was The Great Depression. Daddy didn’t have a job. He farmed. The whole family helped. One of the first things I remember my parents saying was, “We don’t have the money,” no matter what the subject was. My dad did any odd job he could get, plowing a field, helping dig a well, or cutting hair. Mama sewed for the public and paid the rent by doing the landlady’s wash. It took all day to wash and the next to iron. Us kids helped.
Our dresses were often made of printed feedsacks. It took three to make a dress and one to make a shirt. I never had a storebought dress till I was grown. I only ever knew of my parents buying two things new, both hefore I was born. Daddy sold Singer Sewing Machines for a while and had managed to buy Mama one. They’d also managed to buy a pressure canner. Both these items were precious since Mam sewed everything she and the girls wore and made a bit of cash sewing for the the public. She and Daddy were good farmers. Mama canned enough vegetables to feed us all year. We never went hungry or ragged. Learning how to make with bare necessities has made everything since then better.
I never imagined I’d see men walk on the moon and stay in space for months. Things have changed a lot but people really haven’t.
Right now, I feel good. I was wide awake at one thirty, so I got up to write. I love it when writing kicks me out of bed! For so many years my soul was yearning to write but I was caught up in what had to be done. I was married with two children. Bud and I worked alternate shifts to care for them. I suppose I did write a lot out of necessity, now that I think of it. We both wrote a lot of notes.
“Make sure Kate doesn’t get off without her $12 dollars and permission form for the field trip. It’s in an envelope in her backpack. She has to wear that red Tshirt and white pants I left on her dresser. Don’t let John get off without a belt. He got a warning note yesterday. Matt Ford’s mother is going to drop him off for a ride to bus stop if it’s raining. Remind kids to get lunch money out of cup in kitchen window. I left a roast in crockpot for dinner. Please make sure it’s heating up before you lie down. Please have kids fold towels in dryer. Love you.”
I’d find a note from Bud when I got in. He would have just lain down for a late nap after the kids got in from school.
“John has to turn in his book report tomorrow! Don’t let him go out doors till he finishes it. He will get an F! I washed a load of jeans. They’re still in dryer. I forgot to call you, we need bread, milk, apples, and Kate needs posterboard. Can you run to Walmart? Sorry. She didn’t tell me till I was getting ready to lie down. Love you.”
Now the kids are long grown, we are both retired so I write what and when I want. Everything in its time.
What daily habit do you do that improves your quality of life?
I am fortunate to be at that time in my life when most of my time is my own. I get my housekeeping out of the way early so I do what I want the rest of the day. I putter with my plants, garden when it’s not too hot, crochet, cook, write, read, or visit my ninety-six year old Mother. We are homebodies but occasionally, Bud and I go out to breakfast or lunch with friends. I think it’s timing rather than habit that improved my quality of life.
What was the last thing you searched for online? Why were you looking for it?
I looked up Virginia Williams, an old time Fiddling Champion. She was a delightful lady. I loved her conversation and music. Sadly, this lovely lady died in 2023 of ALS.
I needed Lassie. I was sure if I’d had Lassie I could tackle anything that came my way. Timmy was such a dope, always falling in a well, getting in a mine cave-in, or getting stuck high in a tree. I could clearly see the danger that he was headed for, putting Lassie to the trouble of bailing Timmy out. If she wasn’t staring down a mountain lion, or nudging a branch toward Timmy stuck in quicksand, she’d race home in record time to bring back help. Can you imagine what she’d have accomplished had she been blessed with vocal cords and opposable thumbs?